Showing posts with label Suicide. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Suicide. Show all posts

Monday, September 10, 2012

Suicide prevention day: no laughing matter

The unfortunate constant is that almost nobody sees it coming until is too late.

Three decades of decades ago, a couple had an argument. The wife drank a bottle of lye impulsively, but she could be saved by her quick-thinking husband.

Individuals with in a fit of anger commit suicide on impulse.
A navy officer once visited a secretary to give her some official paperwork. He was talking proudly of his son, who precisely was taking his life at that moment.

Parents idealize their own children, failing to discover if something is wrong with them.
Another couple was having a heated discussion and the husband decided that the best way he could make a point was by taking an overdose of sleeping pills in front of her wife. He came to his senses and went straight to the hospital to detox himself. He barely made it.

Pride makes you take foolish decisions.

My only and humble advice to all my readers would be: be nice to your neighbor. Bullying would be a laugh riot for you but you shouldn’t be pushing somebody to take their live. You are not responsible for their live, but there’s no sense in pushing a person to the edge. Try to shut up instead, if you can’t say something nice.

Don’t speak ill about psychiatry or psychology. Don’t demean what pastors or priests can do. They are in the business of saving lives. If you belittle them, you might be closing the door for somebody that needs to cross it.

Be nice and polite. A smile or a sincere compliment could make the difference.

It’s no laughing matter.

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Saturday, January 28, 2012

Sorry, but something is deeply wrong with this tragedy (Darn it, it was a dog!)

When I was a child, coming home after school, grandma told me my dog Terry was taken away by the dog pound employees. Upset doesn’t begin to describe what I felt. My best friend was taken away from me! Anyway, being raised somehow by The Littlest Hobo and Lassie on TV, there was little doubt in my mind that Terry would escape and come back to me.

I waited for Terry two years, and then I gave up hope.

Not so long ago I read in the newspaper that a young boy committed suicide because his beloved dog died. I remembered Terry, but I couldn’t understand the boy’s radical decision. Darn it, it was a dog! You can cry all that you want, most people would understand that!

But you don’t take your life because your dog died.

At the same time, another boy killed his dad… because his dad killed his dog. I could imagine the boy’s pain, but darn it, it was a dog, not a human life!

You don’t take a human life because of killing a dog.

I’m of course against animal cruelty. But bash me all the way if you want it, because for me the notion of considering animals as subjects of law with rights is an unspeakable affront to all the suffering humanity, that one that is starving to death in Africa and elsewhere, that one that is still being slaved for forced labor or sexual exploitation or that one that will be lapidated for “sinful” behavior.

In that perspective, animalism is an utter waste of time and resources, and a cowardly way to avoid an undoubtedly more difficult (and gruesome) fight for fellow humans. It’s easier and safer to stand up for bulls than for 2.000 extrajudicially executed human beings.

That said, I deeply regret soap opera actor Nick Santino’s decision to take his life with an overdose of pills after euthanizing his dog. But I can’t still understand or accept his suicide as a loving gesture. Darn it, it was a dog.

Santino, rest in peace, may God have mercy on your soul and hopefully there is a heaven for dogs, too.

But for me, we should try being more altruistic with our fellow humans first. It's the least that we can do. Then we can talk about animals.

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